Create a Sense of Calm Through Scent

Have you ever noticed how the smell of jasmine in bloom or freshly washed linen can instantly lift your mood or transport you to a vivid memory? There’s a powerful reason for that, rooted in neuroscience.

The limbic system is the part of the brain involved in emotional regulation, memory formation, behaviour and hormonal function. It includes key structures such as the amygdala, hippocampus and hypothalamus. What’s particularly fascinating is that the olfactory system, your sense of smell, has a direct connection to this emotional and memory-processing centre.

When you smell something, the olfactory receptors in your nose send signals straight to the limbic system. This bypasses rational thinking and goes directly to how you feel. That’s why certain scents can trigger emotional responses or vivid memories almost instantly. For me, the scent of lemon myrtle brings back memories of sherbet lemons in my grandmother’s drawing room, a memory that made me feel loved and special.

Studies show that within milliseconds of an aroma hitting the nose, brain waves coordinate a response. We can instantly recognise a scent and become aware of how it impacts our mood. A stress response, for example, can begin to diminish within minutes.
(References: PHID:34645711, 10069621)

Research also suggests that up to 75 percent of the emotions we experience daily are influenced by smell. That’s why intentionally shaping your sensory environment is one of the most effective ways to support your emotional wellbeing. > Harvard Medicine: The Connections Between Smell, Memory, and Health

Before we dive into which essential oils can help make your home feel more calm and beautiful, it’s worth looking at what may be disrupting that balance in the first place. One of the biggest contributors to stress, surprisingly, is exposure to everyday chemicals in the home.

This was the first change we made four years ago, and it transformed our wellbeing.

According to the Environmental Protection Agency (EPA), indoor air pollutant levels are often 2 to 5 times higher than outdoor levels, and in some cases, they can be more than 100 times higher. Contributors include candles, perfumes, deodorants, air fresheners, cleaning sprays, laundry products and other synthetic personal care items. Many of these products emit volatile organic compounds (VOCs), which have been shown to irritate the respiratory system, trigger allergies and increase physical and emotional stress. Poor indoor air quality is directly linked to increased levels of anxiety and stress.

I used to rely on high-end candles like Jo Malone, Lumira and Glasshouse to create ambience. I loved the warmth and familiarity of scent. But I would often experience headaches or blocked sinuses afterward. I brushed it off until I began learning what was actually in them—paraffin wax, a petroleum by-product, and synthetic fragrance compounds with unlisted ingredients.

Once I understood the risk, I made the switch. As the gatekeepers of our homes, we get to decide what we welcome in.

Now we use Young Living essential oils and diffusers as part of our everyday life. It’s not only a safer and more sustainable option, but it’s also more versatile and beneficial for the whole family, supporting everything from sleep and emotions to immune health and natural cleaning.

As Miek Wiking writes in The Little Book of Hygge,
“Lighting just one candle fills the air with more microparticles than a busy street of traffic.”

It's a simple shift with powerful impact.

Scent has the ability to shape how we feel, how we respond and how we experience home. When we remove the things that cause stress and replace them with what supports us, we create space to truly feel well, inside and out.

Just to name a few calming essential oils…

Lavender (Lavandula angustifolia)

Fragrance Profile: Soft, floral, herbaceous
Emotional Support:

  • Reduces anxiety and emotional stress

  • Promotes relaxation and restful sleep

  • Shown in clinical studies to lower cortisol (stress hormone) levels
    Young Living Use: Found in Stress Away, Peace & Calming, Lavender essential oil, Tranquil Roll-On

Frankincense (Boswellia carterii)

Fragrance Profile: Deep, resinous, grounding
Emotional Support:

  • Calms the mind and deepens breath—supporting spiritual practice, meditation, or prayer

  • Supports emotional processing and inner peace

  • Neuroprotective and helps with mental clarity
    Young Living Use: Pure Frankincense, found in Sacred Mountain, Awaken, and Brain Power blends

Roman Chamomile (Chamaemelum nobile)

Fragrance Profile: Sweet, apple-like, lightly herbaceous
Emotional Support:

  • Supports nervous system regulation

  • Excellent for calming children and helping with emotional outbursts or bedtime routines

  • Often used for trauma, grief, or sleep disturbances
    Young Living Use: Found in Gentle Baby, Tranquil, and Roman Chamomile essential oil

Stress Away (Young Living Blend)

Fragrance Profile: Vanilla-lime tropical scent with Lavender and Cedarwood
Emotional Support:

  • Designed specifically to reduce stress and promote emotional relaxation

  • Contains Copaiba (amplifies the calming properties of other oils)

  • A favourite for daily emotional support and travel
    Young Living Use: Pre-blended, available as a Roll-On or in the Premium Starter Bundle

Peace & Calming (Young Living Blend)

Fragrance Profile: Sweet, citrusy, and lightly floral
Emotional Support:

  • Ideal for soothing overwhelm or anxious energy

  • Great for children (bedtime roller or diffuser)

  • Calms restlessness and supports emotional regulation during transitions
    Young Living Use: One of the most beloved blends for families

Orange (Citrus sinensis)

Fragrance Profile:
Bright, sweet, and warm—like the scent of freshly peeled oranges on a sunny day.

Emotional Support:
Often called “sunshine in a bottle”, Orange essential oil is known for its uplifting and calming qualities. Just a few deep breaths can help shift your mood and bring a sense of lightness.

  • Gently eases feelings of stress, anxiety, or low mood

  • Encourages joy, positivity, and emotional ease

  • Helps calm the nervous system and support emotional release

  • Especially supportive during transitions or times of sensory overload

Scientific Insight:
Orange oil contains limonene, a natural compound studied for its calming, mood-boosting effects. Research shows it can help lower stress hormones like cortisol and support the nervous system in regulating emotional responses.
PubMed ID: 27956736, 10859773

Because the scent travels straight to the brain’s limbic system, the part responsible for emotion and memory, it can have a fast and powerful effect on how we feel. It is personally an oil we use everyday!

If you're interested in diving deeper into the scientific and therapeutic uses of essential oils—especially how to apply them effectively at home, the Essential Oil Desk Reference published by life science is a brilliant resource. It’s specifically tailored to Young Living essential oils, and is one of the most comprehensive and trusted guides available for understanding the chemistry, uses, and benefits of aromatherapy. Whether you're just beginning or looking to deepen your knowledge, it's a powerful tool for supporting your home and wellbeing with confidence and clarity.

For more FAQ, read this post!

Looking to replace candles and chemicals with something more natural?

The Classic Starter Bundle is the perfect place to begin. Thoughtfully curated with 12 of the most loved essential oils, this collection is designed to help you create a calm, inviting atmosphere while supporting your family’s wellbeing—naturally.

These oils go far beyond just making your home smell beautiful. From emotional support and restful sleep to immune health, energy, and happier little ones, they’ve become part of our everyday rhythm. We use them daily, and it’s been incredible to witness the long-term benefits as our children grow in a home that supports their health in simple, intentional ways.

If you’re looking to start your low-tox journey, this is the most practical and powerful place to begin.


Disclaimer: I am not a licensed medical professional, and the information provided here is for educational purposes only. Please consult with your healthcare practitioner before making any changes to your medical routine.


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